Some Reflection . . .

Have been reflecting on the "Stages of Life", or to be precise, my heart, unintentionally, has been "analysing" the different stages of life. Here are some results drawn:

• From foetus to baby, toddler, childhood, adolescent and even to young adulthood, individuals at these stages are mainly ASKING & SEEKING (RECEIVING STAGE) - be it for "Invisible (Love, Care, Attention) or Visible (toys, clothes, money) things"! Although at times individuals at these stages can Give (both the Invisible & Visible "things") but they are more incline to Receive! And Parents are always more than willing to give their child the best of the best! BUT . . . would the child knows how to appreciate their parents' Love & Sacrifice?! Surely, they do know that they are loved and at times able to reciprocate but they May Not be that Determined or Inclined to Reciprocate the Love & Care!
• At the stage of young adulthood to 30-40s, individuals would be working hard to earn the most as well as to enjoy life with friends and busy settling down with their own new family and . . . what about their parents? This, too, is a Receiving Stage!
• Only when "tragedy" happens or when the individuals hit the "Older Stages of Life" or when they are in parenthood, they would know how to Appreciate & LOVE their parents & close ones, Learn to Give more than to Receive or Make wiser decisions! But sometimes, it is already TOO LATE . . . !

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Had a chat with some family's friend, the husband had an accident few nights ago. The moment the car slammed onto his side of car, he thought he was gonna "be finished"! Thank God that he did not have life-threatening injuries but is very much traumatised! [Nowadays, drivers are very irresponsible and unethical, they drink and drive or they speed all the way thinking that they are a professional drivers & accident-proof!]. The husband was driving carefully but it was the alcohol-consumed driver that sped and caused the accident! Thus, a careful driver is no longer safe on the road that shares with unethical & irresponsible drivers! From this incident, he knew that life is Really Fragile & he said to his family & us "to enjoy life, appreciate others and do what you can while you can as we will never know what would happen tomorrow!". This, I understood, too, but need constant self-reminders!

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Children (including myself) always think that parents are against what they do when parents disapprove them from doing certain things! But little do the children know what their parents do are for their good! . . . Now, only can I truly understand this! But it is Too Late! . . . For instant, a friend's teenage child insist to go out on weekday's night for cell group during school semester. And he was not home by 10:20 pm! But what could the parents do as children of these days are more "free" (or mind me of my strong word "more rebellious & pampered"). Little do the child know how worried are his parents, as his dad just had an accident and surely clouds of negative thoughts would come to his mind!

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It is only when negative incidents had happened then would one realised & understand more about certain things that one would think otherwise before the incidents! And many times, it is already Too Late!

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Only if children, at a young age, can understand, appreciate & reciprocate their parents' love before it is Too Late!

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Only if . . . Then this world would have less sorrows and more Love & Joy in people's life!

Unconditional LoVe!?

Much have been preached about 'Unconditional Love'!

But what is the true meaning of Unconditional Love?

Almost everyone can recite the definition of Unconditional Love!

But can everyone exercise Unconditional Love towards others?

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Does Unconditional Love mean pampering an Unreasonable person?

No discipline should be involved?

And any form of frustration and anger should be suppressed?

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My Unconditional Love has been tested closely since 5 years ago and up to this moment!

Frustration and guilt have been following closely thereafter!

The high and low emotions of guilt, frustration and love have drove me up the wall!

Much tears have been shed and I bet God's heart has been broken over and over again by my foolish act!

But the "results" of these tests have made me understood a little more about the meaning of Unconditional Love and more and more to be discovered! And I know it won't be an easy learning curve but a tough one! !

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I am still learning to Love, and not letting my emotions go out of control, with God's love!

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I am very sorry for what I have done and I have to learn from the mistakes and . . . be a better person!

Mr. R. Lam concert @ Genting

Raymond Lam's Let's Party 19th Dec 2009 Concert @ Genting, Malaysia

. . . Poster at the entrance . . .

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. . . His Signature Pose! . . .

Concert Guest . . . Joel Chan!

Concert Guest . . . Vincy!

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. . . Concert Ending . . . with Joel Chan & Wong Cho Lam . . .

. . . All concert guests! . . .

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Had a good time at the concert! Went all the way to Genting from K.K., passing the sea and the mountains! Harrrrr... yet did not get to see him "up-close" face to face!! What a waste! Nevertheless, it was a good experience! My first time to a Hong Kong singer solo concert!

*Yeay*

Hong Kong Dec 2009

First time to a Disneyland . . . !!!

Was informed that the Hong Kong Disneyland is the smallest among all the Disney in the World. . .

In deed it is a pretty small one. Perhaps, it gave me a foretaste of the bigger Disney in LA and Japan! Heard that those big Disney need more than 1 day to finish touring the whole compound! Aaahhh. . . ! !

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In the Disney Train to the Disneyland! As expected, the train is decorated with their signature cartoons! The windows & hand "holder" of the train are the shape of the Mickey Mouse head *CuTe*

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. . . Some decorations . . .

. . . Cute Piggy Bun . . .

No outside food and drinks are allowed in the Disneyland!

Hence, taking advantage of this regulation, the foods and beverages sold there are Not Cheap!

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Good Night Disneyland!

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MTR of North Point

. . . Steep escalator in Fortress Hill MTR . . .

. . . Hunting for some cheap electronic gadgets at this "suburb" but found none! . . .

. . . Last destination before flying off . . .

"Too Wise . . . Or ? "

A little quiet observation:

• Met some people that constantly criticise about things and people around them and too quick in speaking forth unpleasant words! - Those words are hurting my ears!
• Some people think they know a lot and constantly "offer" destructive criticism! - Perhaps, they think they have enough of experiences, hence they have the "wisdom" to "comment"!
• They are so focused on the negative things and often overlook on the little positive ones!
• They only see from one angle & direction & judged based on that view alone!
• Yet they only complain and criticise behind the "Subjects" . . . But have no guts to "comment" in front of the "Subjects"!

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• There are also other people who "like" to argue to show that they are "knowledgeable" and they always think that their points & arguments are RIGHT!
• People can be so loose with their words & tongue and blurt out words that are negative, unnecessary & without "Substance"!...

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Lesson learnt: Shall always remind myself to remain humble & think before speaking forth!

Out of Sight, Out of Mind ... & Out of Heart!?

"Out of Sight, Out of Mind" . . .

It is a true and real statement!

And eventually it will be . . . "Out of Heart" . . . ? !

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Does the absence of the Ring indicate that she is already out of his heart?

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My Favourite Cat!

This is my favourite childhood cartoon character, Doraemon a.k.a. Ding Dong!

He grew up with me during my childhood time!

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It is a cute, adorable, chubby, cheeky robot cat!

It has a "Power-Pocket", a pocket that contains every magical thingy!

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I remember watching it in amazement whenever he reaches in to his "Power Pocket" to take some futuristic, high-tech gadgets out to help Nobita to solve his problems and troubles!

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He doesn't have a pair of ear because they were eaten by mice!

Hence, he, a cat, is afraid of mice! ! !

He He He . . . He he he he he he . . . What a cute joke! :P

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I wonder if I can have a real-time Doraemon when I'm back in heaven!

That would be really great! So I can go back to the past as well as the future!

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For the mean time on earth, I wish to own one or two of the Doraemon watches, Doratch!

They are limited edition watches!

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But I have no idea where to purchase them! ! -_-"

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Shall continue hunting for them, I mean the Genuine Ones! =)

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http://www.runat.co.jp/doratch/history.html

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